Sunday, 21 April 2013

You can Unfriend, Unfollow or Delete



So I was thinking about something last night about friends and relationship and it occurred to me " why do people still maintain friends who stress them?
A good friend of mine was telling me about how a Facebook friend of hers has written a very rude and offensive post on her wall and that friend keeps on hurting and disrespecting her on Facebook. A site which is supposed to connect friends and make us know what's going on in each others lives. why do we have to be rude to each other?
                                       
                         
                                                                                                                                                                     You are not obligated to keep a friend who gossips, disrespects you, say hurtful words to you and belittle you any time because of politeness.
Why should you concern yourself with tiptoeing around his or her feelings and continue to absorb negativity into your life?

Sometimes out of respect we struggle with the internal conflict of not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings.... And because of our respectful nature we continue to keep following and making friends on Facebook, twitter and in life because we think it will be mean and rude to Unfollow them or unfriend them. Pls you can be nice but don't allow anyone to walk on you or make you unhappy, don't waste your time on negative people.

Why do we still keep friends who bring drama, negativity and anger to our lives?
You have to realize some friends have come to their expiry date when all that they do is make you angry, bring the worse in you all the time.
My dear, value your sense of peace, and impact positive energy to your life rather than allowing yourself to linger around friends who will always bring you down and disturb your peace.
Close your door to some people, not because of pride but because they do not longer fit into your life.

I think this is a great time of the year to ask yourself some questions about the people in your life and the kind of friends you keep in your social circles and make some changes.
                                             
 You are not obligated to keep anyone on your timeline, feed or life when all they do is bring you stress and drama! Some friends will even bring you down so they can feel better about themselves, DO NOT LET THEM... You can't control their actions and how they feel about you, but you can always control your page and your life so feel free to do so
                                               

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You CAN always Unfriend, Unfollow or Delete any person on any social media and in your life when you feel is the right thing to do to stay positive.
Thanks for Reading
Love
Adiepena
Xxx